New Delhi, February 14, 2013- Flowers, chocolates and heartfelt cards- it’s usually the man who is expected to make Valentine’s Day special for his lady. How about giving a twist to this tale this year? Let’s turn the table and take charge of making it worthwhile for him and show how much you care. Be the seductress of his dreams and set the mood for the day by giving him some sweet (and naughty) surprises to sweep him off his feet. Femail puts together some smart and quirky ideas to make your day special.
Sprinkle love
Catch him when he is least expecting it! Nothing would kick-start his day and mood (yes not even his cappuccino) like a steaming hot shower with you. Slip in when he is taking a shower and carry along a rich and luxurious body scrub. You can also pick up shower gels in flavours such as cocoa butter, chocolate, vanilla and mint to soothe his senses.
Press rewind
Revisiting old memories of your dating years is always great fun and strengthens the bond. Chalk out a list of places you used to visit frequently during your dating period. That one restaurant or pub is potent enough to reignite the spark. Book a table for a romantic dinner in advance, pick him from his office, order his favourite food and wine and raise a toast to your love and togetherness.
Pop the question
Yes, you read it right! All the single ladies who have been avoiding the big proposal, this is the perfect time. If you are confident about each other, and like each other’s company, then why not make it a permanent affair? You can either surprise him by popping the question in a private place or make it large by doing it in the company of your friends. If you have time by your side or are adventurous enough, then take your loved to your holiday spot.
Nice and naughty
Come home early from work and spend the evening in making things spicy for a sensuous Valentine’s night! Begin with decorating the bedroom with aromatic candles, rose petals and heart shaped balloons -that’s it- keep it simple. Scent your satin bed sheets with his favourite perfume. Then, take a hot shower and slip into your sexy lingerie. Rest, you know what to do.
Sweet nothings
Take your surprise a notch up by sending him a bouquet at his workplace. What else? Ramp up the love quotient with a personalise card hinting what to expect later on. “Last year, I bought a plain card made from recycled paper and imprinted my lip marks on it with a love message reading you are my favourite thing to do,” says 31-year-old Farah Ahmed. Adds Rachna, “Such personalised gifts break the monotony of your relationship and renew the love.”
Give it a thought
Spare a few minutes to think about what your man really needs. Is he mad about new gadgets? Has he been eyeing a new electronic toy for long? Go for something that he has been dreaming about. Buy him an accessory for his laptop or a DVD player for his car. Your gift can also be as simple as making a customised iPod playlist. Thoughtful gifts are the perfect way to express your love for him. “Gifts make each other feel very special and communicate beyond words,” says Rachna K Singh, psychologist, Artemis hospital, Gurgaon.
Soothing touch
What’s the one thing that every guy loves? (besides the obvious… food, TV and sex)A soulful massage or a pampering session at the salon is the answer. Men might disagree to this at first, but they love it secretly. Book for an indulgent couple ritual at a plush spa or become his special masseur for the day. What more? Set the ambience with some lavender or jasmine candles, organic massage oils, rich body creams, comfy bathrobes in soft hues and soothing music for a rejuvenating and soul nourishing experience. End your day with a delightful dinner cooked at home.
Good ol’ long drive
Travelling together is a great way to get closer and express your thoughts as well. Finish off dinner a little early and tell him that you are craving for a dessert. Surprise him by offering to drive and then while picking your sweet meal and his favourite too go on a long drive.
